Back to school week is here. I am not sure how I feel about having three kids in school this year! Two full-time and one part. Hmmm...most of you would probably think I would be relieved to have a "break" in the action. There are messy days around here when I think the same, but once this becomes our everyday routine and the novelty wears off, I think there's going to be some sadness.
Nearly four years ago we welcomed our third child. Our oldest was only 3 1/2 at the time, so to say life has been busy ever since would be an understatement. While it has been challenging and exhausting, every second of the chaos has been worth it. Our children have grown to the be the best of buds and though there are times this heavily works against our favor, I love seeing my big family grow so close together.
We often say our middle children, just sixteen months apart, speak some sort of twin language. They are two peas in a pod and get into plenty of mischief together, but the just adore each other. My little guy is going to struggle with his big sister and playmate gone all day every day. Luckily he will have preschool four afternoons a week to fill the void and step out on his own, but I can imagine after school and weekends will be filled with as much playtime together as possible.
People always tell you the days are long but the years are short. In the middle of the chaos it is hard to believe, but in the blink of an eye they are school-aged. Those innocent early childhood years where their biggest dilemma is what to play with on any given day are coming to an end. The time has come to head off to school to learn, make new friends, and experience the joys and heartache that will come with those friendships.
Today I send my second baby off to kindergarten. Lately the tears have come in the late hours of the night or early hours of the morning. My sweet girl is off to face the real world and I pray she finds acceptance, kindness, and joy in her days at school. I hope we have taught her well and she, in turn, does her best to be kind and accepting of others.
Another milestone reached. They seem to be coming all too quickly...Blessings on your first day sweet girl!
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